The following is a report by
Antwan Harris from WMGT 41 NBC News out of Macon:
MONEY 101: Couples Working Through Tough Times
Experts say money is the number one issue married couples argue about.
While the economy continues to trickle downward several families across Middle Georgia are losing their homes and, according to experts, their ability to tough it out together. Now health officials say they are seeing more families resort to counseling to help save marriages.
Susan Johanson LPC said, "We have seen an increase in the number of people coming in. We also have seen an increase in intimate partner violence."
According to for your marriage dot org, The divorce rate for first-time marriages stands at around 50 percent.
People who divorce and re-marry have an even greater chance of getting additional divorces. Anywhere from 60-75 percent
James and Lila Seay of the Houston Avenue Church of Christ, talk with young couples daily about marriage and the strain of the economy.
James said most fail because they are not honest about finances in the beginning.
"We always tell couples to openly discuss their financial situation and be clear about their goals and objectives," Seay added.
The Seay's, working on 38 years of marriage, do what experts say helps young couples survive; that is talking through problems before they hit home.
Johanson added, "It is important to know what we are communicating about. Are we arguing about money or how decisions get made in the household."
Marriage counselors say a tough economy can impact people in terms of practical everyday experiences, such as sleep or appetite.
Lila, said in the event of job loss, having a sound foundation can help couples make the most of what they have.
"When the debt comes and somebody loses a job and the pressures are there, but if you hold on to the love that you have for each other, that will help you make it through," Seay added.Source:
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